You Promised Yourself Your Life Would Be Different
Yet somehow, the past keeps finding its way into the present
Sound Familiar?
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You deeply desire a life that feels worlds away from the one you’re living, but struggle to get moving or trust yourself enough to stay the course.
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You look at loving families and relationships around you with a sense of longing for that same depth of connection in your own life.
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You crave calm, clarity and confidence in your decisions, but often find yourself caught in anxiety, overthinking or paralysis.
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You carry unresolved anger, grief or hurt that gets triggered in everyday life, and you’re ready to release it rather than keep replaying it.
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You’re tired of believing that more money, success or freedom must always require more work, pressure and sacrifice.
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What if .....
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You’re not stuck. You’re entangled.​​
Sometimes what holds us back isn’t a lack of willpower, but an unseen loyalty to those who came before us. Moving beyond what our family knew can be harder than we realise.
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The love and connection you long for is possible.
The relationships we grow up around often become our earliest blueprint for love, conflict and connection. While changing that blueprint takes intention and practice, the odds are ever in your favour.
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Your anxiety may be looking for safety.
Suppressing difficult emotions takes enormous energy. Giving them space to be safely processed and released creates safety and stability.
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Your pain is asking to be heard, not hidden.
What we push away doesn’t always disappear. Giving anger and grief space to be acknowledged and expressed can change how we carry them.
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Hard work isn’t the only path to having more.
We inherit beliefs about money, work and success, often learning to strive and sacrifice more easily than we learn to receive. Not everything needs to be forced.
Ways to Work Together
1:1 Work
​A private space to work through what's really going on.
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The Past
Give the anger, grief and hurt you’ve carried somewhere to go, while releasing the family patterns you no longer want to carry forward.
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Relationships
Heal the patterns that keep playing out in love and connection, so you can stop recreating what’s familiar and build the relationships you deeply want.
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Money & Abundance
Release inherited patterns of scarcity, struggle and overworking, and begin building a relationship with money that has more room for receiving, possibility and abundance.
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Your Heart’s Desire
Move beyond the life you think you should want, reconnect with what you truly desire, and learn to trust yourself enough to go after it.
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Workshops
Come together to learn, experience and heal alongside others.
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Family Constellations
Step into the world of ancestral healing, where one person’s story can touch something much deeper in another.
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So much of what we carry was shaped through relationships, families and communities. Some wounds were not created alone. Perhaps they were never meant to be healed alone either.
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Free Online Talks
Curious about this work? Come listen, learn, ask questions and explore new ways of understanding yourself and the life you come from.
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Online Workshops
Go beyond learning and experience the work for yourself, exploring themes such as relationships, money, the inner child, ancestry, manifestation and trauma.
Come as you are.
Leave with something new.​​​
Hi! I'm Darvinya
I help people break free from the patterns of the past, so they can create a life that feels truly their own.
Perhaps you’ve reached a point where understanding yourself is no longer enough. You want something to actually change.
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Through trauma-informed and systemic work, I help you:
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Explore what shaped you
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Untangle and release what no longer serves you
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Create connection and movement towards what you truly desire
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Trauma Informed
Safety comes first
Systemic
Looking beyond
the individual
Integrative
Working across mind, body and emotion.
Credentials
Bachelor of Arts in Anthropology and International Relations
University of Melbourne
Masters in International Relations New York University
Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Master Practitioner & Coach​​
​Multiple Brain Integration Technique (mBIT) Coach
Inner Child Integration Therapist
Transpersonal Regression Therapist
Family Constellations Facilitator
Reiki Master Teacher
Glynnis Quek
I am so grateful to have Darvinya be a part of my healing journey. My experiences with her sessions have been both profound and transformative. The inner child and regression therapy sessions have helped me to get better at emotional regulation and improved my relational skills with loved ones and friends. The matrilineal lineage session drastically shifted my relationship with my mother and it felt like a lot of the heaviness from past generations have been lifted.
As a coach and consultant, Darvinya exudes warmth, empathy, kindness and compassion every time. She holds a safe space for me to share openly. I highly recommend anyone, who is willing to put in the work in changing their lives and mindset, to work with with her. You'll see profound changes to your lives too.
Starting is Simple
You don’t need to know exactly what you need. We can start with a conversation.
Book a free intro call
Tell me what's bringing you here and what you'd like to change.
Explore what’s going on
We’ll look at what’s happening and what kind of support might make sense.
You decide
If working together feels right, we’ll decide where to begin.
Not sure where to start?
So often, we find ourselves caught between the fear of a bad future and the memory of a painful past.
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If you’re not sure where to start, we can explore where to begin together.